Oh my god
Thanks to Allah
Finally I’m at my last semester of my diploma, Alhamdulillah
It has been 2 days since it started and yet I still haven’t took any pictures yet.
Just because I’m too lazy and no mood for selfie, pictures editing and whatever it is called.
I’ll try to be rajin tomorrow so I can instagram it and post it in my tumblr *woots woots* lol
When people ask me, “don’t you envy your friends who were studying abroad and successful in such age”
My answer would be: No
Okay it’s a lie. I do get jealous for less than 10%, maybe /but jealous in a good way/. I’m more to happy they’re living their dreams and making it happen instead get envy at them. I’m happy and proud to be their friends.
I believe that if I want to be like them, I have to work hard as much as they did or even more! And I believe that Allah has planned a better future for me and the fact that rezeki for each person are different. Maybe my rezeki to study abroad is on my master? Or my insha Allah, phD. We never knows.
That is why I never have the hateful feeling when my friends got their offer to study abroad. I’m happy for them, so happy that I’ve lost my words. In fact, I always pray Allah will ease everything for the good people on my surrounding. Amin :)
Happy 1st September 2014 people and happy merdeka Malaysia
We teach girls to shrink themselves
To make themselves smaller
We say to girls
“You can have ambition
But not too much
You should aim to be successful
But not too successful
Otherwise you will threaten the man”
Because I am female
I am expected to aspire to marriage
I am expected to make my life choices
Always keeping in mind that
Marriage is the most important
Now marriage can be a source of
Joy and love and mutual support
But why do we teach to aspire to marriage
And we don’t teach boys the same?
We raise girls to each other as competitors
Not for jobs or for accomplishments
Which I think can be a good thing
But for the attention of men
We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings
In the way that boys are
Feminist: the person who believes in the social
Political, and economic equality of the sexes